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A common question about the art of allowing is why sometimes obstacles come up all around what you are manifesting in your life? You may feel like you\u2019ve done everything \u201cby the book,\u201d but instead of all this good stuff raining down on you, you are just getting more of the same or obstacles that are standing in your way of reaching your goal. This often happens, but there are some reasons for it, so fear not!<\/p>\n
One of the most likely scenarios is that you have mental blocks – old beliefs about why you can\u2019t have what you want. These old \u201cstories\u201d can come from as far back as your childhood, maybe even before. As we\u2019ve grown up with them, we don\u2019t even realize they are there, like a record needle stuck playing the same thing over and over again in the background. If obstacles are coming up around your goal, you should take a careful look at what you believe about obtaining that deep desire. If you hear yourself saying \u201cpart of me\u2026\u201d then that\u2019s a huge clue.<\/p>\n
Some common blocks are:<\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I\u2019m not smart enough<\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I\u2019m not handsome\/pretty enough<\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Making money is hard work<\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0We struggle to overcome one problem after another, and then we die<\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I\u2019ll get what I want when I get to Heaven<\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I\u2019m not creative enough<\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I don\u2019t deserve it<\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I\u2019m not good enough<\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Wanting more money is greedy<\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0The root of all evil is money<\/p>\n
\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0If I have what I want, other people won\u2019t be able to have their needs met<\/p>\n
A lot of obstacles we create for ourselves are based in fear. We are afraid of what will happen if we don\u2019t get what we want. And, believe it or not, sometimes we are even unconsciously afraid of what will happen if we\u00a0do<\/em>\u00a0get what we want, like a fear of success for example.<\/p>\n You might have unrecognized fears like these:<\/p>\n What if:<\/p>\n \u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I\u2019m too old<\/p>\n \u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I\u2019m too young<\/p>\n \u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I\u2019m not educated enough<\/p>\n \u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I\u2019d make a fool of myself<\/p>\n \u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I fail and everyone knows it<\/p>\n \u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I succeed and my friends abandon me because I\u2019m too rich\/popular\/famous\/<\/p>\n \u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Everyone wants something from me because they think I\u2019m rich<\/p>\n \u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I\u2019m not good enough<\/p>\n Because these mental blocks and fears have been there for a while, many times for years, they can sabotage your manifesting efforts. No doubt you can almost hear someone saying these things, maybe even not directly at you but nevertheless you pick them up and own them, they are hiding in your subconscious. The first thing you need to do is to recognize them. Take some time to yourself to write down all the things you remember being taught about the thing you want. Then make a list of memories you have surrounding your desire of this. Once you are aware of them, do some work on forgiving the people who said them or yourself for creating the story around them.<\/p>\n Working on overriding these old fears, stories and blocks is the best and fastest way to manifest your dreams.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" A common question about the art of allowing is why sometimes obstacles come up all around what you are manifesting in your life? You may feel like you\u2019ve done everything \u201cby the book,\u201d but instead of all this good stuff raining down on you, you are just getting more of the same or obstacles that […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":327609,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[18,19,21],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.martin-daubney.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/327651"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.martin-daubney.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.martin-daubney.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.martin-daubney.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.martin-daubney.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=327651"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.martin-daubney.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/327651\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":327655,"href":"https:\/\/www.martin-daubney.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/327651\/revisions\/327655"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.martin-daubney.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/327609"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.martin-daubney.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=327651"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.martin-daubney.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=327651"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.martin-daubney.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=327651"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}